Why things don’t work out
When the things do not work out you should rejoice. Not because you are delusional. And you don’t see the reality, that, despite all your efforts, things are not working out. But because thanks to you ability to see the fact that things are breaking apart, you can improve dramatically.
What if you would know exactly those things that you need to change to achieve results you aspire?
One or two blind spots. That one thing You don’t see but it is a stumbling stone, and it’s very easy to correct by taking it out of the way.
Would you want to know those blind spots? Would you want to instantly have a key to open the door to your success?
Without getting into situation when things are not going the way you thought they would, we are staying on the plateau of what we have already achieved. We can’t improve. We can’t grow. We can’t change anything.
But when this frustration builds up… This feeling that is eating you from inside keeps you awake at night.. The one you can’t pinpoint it. When this happens, you have got a lucky lottery ticket.
That is the pivotal point!
You have to find it. Because that’s the key!
It will open the door if you only not stop there.
I don’t remember, to be honest, how many times I’ve been in this frustration. Ready to give up. It would be easier to just acknowledge that things didn’t work out, acknowledge that i was not good enough to make things work, and just walk away. Maybe find something new and more interesting to play with.
This time I stayed. I stayed because I’m too ambitious to just give up.
I didn’t always stay. I remember many projects where I only stayed till the moment I had no more energy to move forward.
But not now.
Today I have experience. And I know that if I walk away from this opportunity I will have to go all the way again to stumble upon this presious stone that changes me now.
I am not going to change my trajectory now. The u-turn is not allowed here. Only forward. With pauses. With frustration. And with faith.
I know that I am not good enough because that’s the point to grow. Sometimes people are afraid to acknowledge that they have the room to improve. That is why growth is impossible for them.
There is no need to run from the fact that things don’t go the way we expected. We don’t need to escape the feeling of being lacking something.
Just acknowledge:
- – I lack experience
- – I don’t have some knowledge yet
- – I don’t have skills to apply what I have learned so far.
- – and I am ok!
I rejoice. I rejoice that things are not working out, but I’m still alive, I still move forward, and I will make this thing work. This is my pivotal moment I was waiting for. Bring it on!
