How do people perceive me

Sometimes people think “who does she think she is?”, When see me actively pursuing my goals, taking the initiative or throwing a bold statement. If I say so, I know what is it I am saying. But for many it is just a statement. For me, it is just the tip of the iceberg. For the whole work around this statement is hidden from the eyes of people under the water. The tip of the ice is not the iceberg, the mass under the water is. And you should be careful not to assume thinking that what you see it is all it is. You know what happened with those who assumed 🤫

If you are afraid of failing, then you are not serious about succeeding.

(Dr. Sunday Adelaja – The Mighty Formula)
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When the desire for publicity is problematic

People have the itch to become visible on social media, appreciated and respected as an influencer and a thought leader, although they were not even able to build their own personality and substantial product that can make a difference. This itch is a sign of a an ill self-esteem. We have to be the light of the world to be put in the corner to light all of the room. If your light is not strong enough, its place will not be the main corner, because you haven’t built depth to be able to shine far enough.

Nothing will tell you more about what people value than what they do repeatedly.

Tom Critchlow – The Strategic Independent: Theory & Practice for Independent Consultants (Ways of Seen Chapter)
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You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.

Admiral Jim Stockdale
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