If you can see it, you can do it
All catastrophies we witness these days show us that we can’t rely on visible things
Why things don’t work out
When the things do not work out you should rejoice. Not because you are delusional. And you don’t see the reality, that, despite all your efforts, things are not working out. But because thanks to you ability to see the fact that things are breaking apart, you can improve dramatically.
What if you would know exactly those things that you need to change to achieve results you aspire?
One or two blind spots. That one thing You don’t see but it is a stumbling stone, and it’s very easy to correct by taking it out of the way.
Would you want to know those blind spots? Would you want to instantly have a key to open the door to your success?
Without getting into situation when things are not going the way you thought they would, we are staying on the plateau of what we have already achieved. We can’t improve. We can’t grow. We can’t change anything.
But when this frustration builds up… This feeling that is eating you from inside keeps you awake at night.. The one you can’t pinpoint it. When this happens, you have got a lucky lottery ticket.
That is the pivotal point!
You have to find it. Because that’s the key!
It will open the door if you only not stop there.
I don’t remember, to be honest, how many times I’ve been in this frustration. Ready to give up. It would be easier to just acknowledge that things didn’t work out, acknowledge that i was not good enough to make things work, and just walk away. Maybe find something new and more interesting to play with.
This time I stayed. I stayed because I’m too ambitious to just give up.
I didn’t always stay. I remember many projects where I only stayed till the moment I had no more energy to move forward.
But not now.
Today I have experience. And I know that if I walk away from this opportunity I will have to go all the way again to stumble upon this presious stone that changes me now.
I am not going to change my trajectory now. The u-turn is not allowed here. Only forward. With pauses. With frustration. And with faith.
I know that I am not good enough because that’s the point to grow. Sometimes people are afraid to acknowledge that they have the room to improve. That is why growth is impossible for them.
There is no need to run from the fact that things don’t go the way we expected. We don’t need to escape the feeling of being lacking something.
Just acknowledge:
- – I lack experience
- – I don’t have some knowledge yet
- – I don’t have skills to apply what I have learned so far.
- – and I am ok!
I rejoice. I rejoice that things are not working out, but I’m still alive, I still move forward, and I will make this thing work. This is my pivotal moment I was waiting for. Bring it on!
Many people are focused on views, followers, likes, leads and clients, forgetting to focus on the quality of their product
You have to focus on the quality of your product, but don’t make it an excuse to procrastinate
Obsession
“Foxes have dens and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head” – came to my mind as I scrolled through the timeline and saw this image of firefighters resting after a long battle for the life of this part of the earth. Greece, August 2025.
When you are obsessed with your purpose in life, fully invested in your day-to-day tasks related to this purpose, you might find yourself in a situation where you will not care about what others think.
You will not care about the discomfort of others.
You will not care about the discomfort of your own.
Goal. Purpose. Life.
Would you prefer to write books that matter or books that sell?
If you had to choose…
If you want the weight of your daily struggles to feel lighter the solution is to set bigger goals.
So that you have bigger problems to focus on. Seriously.
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Myron Golden
Why do I release courses free?
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t release all courses free. But I understand the situations when ppl don’t have money, and they still want to learn.
When I release free courses guess what happens: people rush to enrol!!!
Did you believe what I have just said above? You shouldn’t have.
And if you did, here is the issue: the less you request for the course the less people value it. Fact. Checked. Verified.
I teach people for 10 years now, 5 of them through prerecorded materials. People just can enrol and study. But they usually don’t.
Firstly, for the reason described above:
Any free course is considered less valuable.
It doesn’t matter if you have squeezed the knowledge you carefully accumulated over the years, structured it, broken into digestible pieces, made presentations, recorded tutorials, and told all of your family to “shut up!” (gently it would sound “be quiet”) for a week so that I could record the lessons.
It doesn’t matter that you have invested your time and soul.
Price matters: the course is more attractive when the price is biting.
Secondly, for the reason that it is not about the course at all. When people want to achieve something and the opportunity presents itself, there are always another reasons you can’t go for it right now.
– A free course available only now? Oh such a shame.. I am on my vocation.. I am busy with kids.. I have to work double shift.. I don’t have pc.. I am in the hospital… I am on the moon.
Those things signal about mental blocks. They still from you. First opportunities. Then your dreams. Then your life.
Don’t let them.
I will still keep releasing my free courses time to time, for those who are fed up with agreeing to walk on the sidewalk. If it is you. See my previous post and grab this course.
I am so fed up by AI generated ads with imitation of humans that I now understand how much the personal brand will thrive in the AI era.
People still need people.
Everyone writes books today. Few turn them into legacy
If you knew your real calling, you would let go of lots of things
The vision takes time to be born
Dear reader! Looking at what you are doing online, the project you are working on, and the ideas you propel, I can instantly see how to make you famous and influential. How to make you a history maker, a legacy builder. But passing this vision down to you turned out to be more challenging than I thought.
They say one image is worth a 1000 words. I say: one clear image of how and where to move is worth 1000 hours. Malcolm Gladwel says 10000 ).
Dear reader, you have great ideas, and many good projects are sitting in your head. They might perish there, never revealed to the world due to many factors. Some of them are related to mental blocks, others to not knowing what steps to take and how to move strategically. Some of them are related to sporadic movement, which only leads to a waste of time and energy. But the main reason is an unclear image of your future.
What do you need to have this image? 3 things:
1. See (and clearly understand) your passion to change something specific (improve, invent, show a different perspective, create a system or solution)
2. See people’s needs, pain, and suffering you want to resolve, soothe, eradicate. See means: feel them, understand them, get passionate about people who go through them. Know their stories. Know their pain.
3. Finally, see the steps on how to move from suffering to resolution with compassion. (Not only design, but test, and ensure it works.) Compassion is the key, because you can’t help if you are careless about what people go through.
Just those 3 things for starters are a long journey. The journey of understanding yourself and others. Unfortunately, I can’t put the map in 3 words or a 1-hour consultation, despite seeing it. My ability to see is in my years of understanding myself and others. It is not in marketing, product design.. or those technical things I teach. It is in compassion and understanding of human nature.
I do want to make this vision available to you. But sometimes It takes some students a few years to get a clear road map for themselves and their unique vision. Because to see, you have to grow, you have to get experience, you have to dig deep in yourself and in knowledge.
Reality is: you have to have patience. Nothing good is just born overnight.. There is time to grow in the “womb”. Same for a vision. Same for your life’s road map. For you to see it, it has to be born.
Knowledge is not equal success
I often consult experts who have a lot of knowledge, they have goals, they have confidence and know about their potential.
The only thing is missing is a strategy and systems that are tested and work. They agree with this.
However, when I say that to have strategy right and build systems you have to start over. Not only start over, but unlearn and learn again.
If it doesn’t work right now, it is because you are building on sand. That is why things look messy. You need to lay down right and solid foundation. And that will take you in the right direction.
Doesn’t matter what you know, although it is a bonus. Building on solid rock matters.
Let’s see how well you know me
Here are 10 things about me I probably haven’t told you, and # 6 was a secret till today.
1. I have started learning 8 languages, and 6 of them I didn’t take too far.. Never progressed with these ones:
– Arabic & French – Love the sound, just wanted to capture some basics,
– Ivrit – That was when I was looking for my vocation in school, I thought maybe I should focus on different languages,
– French & Spanish – wanted to add value to myself for job opportunities
– Italian – I was 18 and stupid and thought the Italian guy would propose.. thanks God he did not and I speak Greek instead 
2. My Granny on father’s side was blind, but she was very strong and confident, so I never thought of her as a person with special needs. I adopted her confidence in myself, despite all downsides, I always knew there was a way, whatever happened!
3. My first job was at a furniture studio where I repaired old furniture with my friend (also a young girl). We did a full refurbishment of soft furniture pieces like armchairs and any type of sofa. Since then, I know I can be good at any job I choose.
4. I discovered entrepreneurship when I was 13. I was designing and sewing clothes for Barbie dolls, later I was selling snacks and beer on the street, and then I moved to candies and chewing gums (small items had a higher margin profit). Also, I was trying to hide my identity so that my classmates wouldn’t recognize me. Although I loved the feeling of winning in this area and doing well, I was ashamed of having the need for additional money. As my classmates were from families with full wallets.
5. As a teenager, I was dreaming of adopting children. I don’t know where this desire came from, as I hadn’t met by then someone who had adopted or someone who had been adopted. I have no idea what influenced this. I literally have seen it in a dream.
6. I stole a pig from the school in the second grade. Not the real one. We had little plastic pigs to learn to count to 20. We had to embark on a school excursion to a museum with the class, and the teacher had forgotten me and locked me in the classroom. I had to wait 3 hours for them to come back. I needed to pee, and I was struggling to stay still because of this 
. So I opened the teacher’s closet to get distracted and decided to compensate myself with a small gift. When the teacher came back, I did not complain or cry; I was happy. The next year, younger pupils had to learn counting to 19 only.
7. I had a natural talent for drawing since I was little. My mom tried to help me develop it and took me to the studio. But I was not accepted due to my age. Later, I had other interests and never came back to that studio. But I envied kids who did. I thought my drawings were better; however, I wanted to know the pro techniques.
8. I started my book writing career at the age of 11-12 when the physics teacher asked me to create an illustrated brochure about fire security. And I did. My 30 pages of A4 illustrated text instructions for kids won the competition between schools. I got my first “Sharp” calculator as a prize. I wasn’t told it was a competition.
disorder
9. I had an obsessive compulsive desorder from childhood till my 33 year. This disorder negatively impacted my personal and professional life. I healed it myself through the literature and conscious application of invented individual techniques for a few years. I simply couldn’t afford to work with a professional therapist. When I share with professionals the symptoms and methods I used to heal, they freeze in awe. Since then, I don’t understand why other people can’t do the same 
10. I had such a minimalistic lifestyle in my 20s that I could pack my bags within 30 minutes and be ready to depart to another country on a contract when my agent called with an urgent invitation. My luggage was simple and light, and I was free.
PS: I have just remembered that I also learned German in school )
Enough pretending you have all the answers. Write authentic books where you are on a journey with the reader to discover something
Let’s change ourselves first
If we want to change things around us, the best way is to change ourselves first.
Honestly, this works. And here is how: when we go through the process of personal transformation, it reveals to us the most effective method for change. Personal transformation is the key to societal transformation. Because of this rare piece of information, you can only get it when you do the work on your own problems and solutions.
Your understanding of success
If you don’t have success in the area you want to have it, passionately desire it, and work for it…Then it means that your brain is protecting you from this success, because something negative is connected to your understanding of success.
If you don’t have success in the area you want to have, passionately desire, and work for… it means that your brain is protecting you from this success, because something negative is connected to your understanding of success.